Get even better at love.
Have fun doing it.
WeDeepen is for people who are curious about how much better love can get when you give it the same attention you give the rest of your life.
It’s an expert-led community for keeping the spark alive and improving how you date, communicate, handle conflict, build intimacy, and connect.
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What Members Say
If you’re in a space in your life where you’re feeling alone or disconnected, this is the space for you.
Hannah
WeDeepen community
The people were so amazing and so warm. We’ve become amazing friends, we feel each other’s hearts, and the love is real.
Bo L.
Retired Entrepreneur & Member
Eleven months in, I feel like I’m a new person. I’ve created this community that is truly safe and secure and full of love.
Cara
Member, 11 months
When I shift that perspective and see my partner as the loving person, it makes all the difference in the world.
Matt & Jen
Austin couple
No one ever taught us how to do love well. WeDeepen is where you learn it, with expert faculty and members who are practicing love too.
Come partnered, dating, or solo.
WeDeepen Membership at a glance
Live sessions
Masterminds, relationship workshops, bonding & integration
Private community
Circle discussions + Ask the Experts
Real-world practice
Weekly Sunday Dares by email
Whether you’re dating, building something new, or keeping a long love alive, the skills underneath are the same.
Every great love story has a messy middle.
We develop skills in work, health, and sport through learning, practice, and feedback. Love is usually left to trial and error: we copy what we saw growing up and learn the rest through heartbreak.
Your intimacy journey is your life story
WeDeepen gives you a place to build the skill of love deliberately, including learning to tell the difference between:
Chemistry
versus
alignment
A rough patch
versus
a repeating pattern
Healthy compromise
versus
losing yourself
A real concern
versus
an old fear getting triggered
A boundary
versus
a wall
Build the skills for a thriving love life.
- 01 Choose relationships that align with the life you want.
- 02 Feel desired, and keep desire alive over time.
- 03 Turn conflict into closeness.
- 04 Know what you want, and ask for it.
- 05 Spot your patterns and choose new ones.
- 06 Bring more play and pleasure into love.
- 07 Have the hard conversations that bring you closer.
- 08 Grow trust that can hold change and uncertainty.
What’s included in your membership
Live sessions
Learn it live, then practice it together.
- Love Masterminds with the faculty, built around your real questions.
- Integration Sessions to practice what you learned.
- Bonding exercises with other members.
Private member community
Keep the conversation going between sessions.
- Ask the Experts Q&A with our faculty.
- Private discussions on dating, sex, conflict and anything you’re working through.
- Member discounts with partners like MindTravel and Tantra Speed Date.
Practice + recordings
Take it into real life every week.
- A new Sunday Dare by email: a playful challenge to try in real life.
- Recordings of every Love Mastermind from the time you join forward.
- The member calendar, so you know what’s coming up.
Start anytime
Choose monthly or annual.
Your first 14 days are free either way. Cancel anytime, on your own.
Join any day and come to the next live session. New member orientation runs monthly; the events calendar shows the next one.
$99 a month is nothing next to what getting it wrong costs: years of your life, bad dates, divorce, starting over.
For comparison, a single private coaching session can cost $300 or more. Here, $99 covers a month of live weekly group sessions with our faculty, plus the community in between.
Monthly
$99 /month
First 14 days free. Founding member rate: $99/month. Cancel anytime.
Start my 14 free daysAnnual
$990 /year
14 days free, then billed once a year. Two months free. Plus $800 credit toward one Love Immersion retreat*
Start my 14 free days (annual)*The $800 Love Immersion credit is for the first 20 annual members, is valid for one retreat during your membership year and can’t be combined with any other discount or offer. Details in the FAQ.
Who is this for?
Anyone who wants to thrive in love and get better at it. Men and women, straight and LGBTQ+, every age and stage, dating, partnered or solo. Many of our members are early adopters: optimists who believe the world is moving toward love and want to invest their time and energy in building it, starting with their own skills.
Can I share a membership with my partner?
Yes, for now. Couples are welcome to share one membership and come to sessions together. It’s set up under one email and one phone number, so choose whose it’ll be.
Is this a cult or a clique?
Not a church. Not an MLM. A culture shift: curious people practicing love together, with many teachers and no single guru or system.
“The love masterminding has been life-changing. I finally understand my identity and can actually step into it. The support, the connections, the community: it reset who I am.”
Bo L., Member
Your first session
Here’s what happens after you join.
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Join today
It takes a couple of minutes.
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Add the live sessions to your calendar
Save the weekly virtual sessions to your calendar to join live. If you miss a Love Mastermind, watch the recording.
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Show up live
60 to 90 minutes, live and online, with the faculty and members who care about thriving in love. Between sessions, explore the private community in Circle.
Meet the Faculty
No one teacher. No one modality. No one system. You learn from experts across dating, sex, communication, attachment, tantra and Reality Transurfing, and our members’ experiences shape who teaches next.
Christina Weber
Love Strategist & Founder
Annie Lalla
Cartographer of Love
Yossef Sagi
Intimacy & Embodied Partnership
Ariana Hall
Deep Transformation & Clarity
Jordan Bowditch
Polarity, Masculinity & Magnetic Pull
Dana Arielle
Feminine Embodiment
Ken Page, LCSW
Author of Deeper Dating
Meet the Full Faculty
Explore the full roster
This month inside the membership.
Love Masterminds with the faculty, and Integration Sessions where you practice what you learned. Plus a New Member Orientation to get you started. Here’s what’s next.
Meet the founder
Christina Weber
In 2014, Christina was throwing Underground Unattached dating events in New York City, convinced that if she got enough dope people in one room, everyone would live happily ever after. Two years in, she saw that chemistry couldn’t overcome pressure, expectations and nervous energy. So she went looking for real answers, and found an entire industry teaching what school never did. WeDeepen, Love Immersion and Love Club bring that whole field together in one place. Featured on the cover of LA Magazine and on Real Time with Bill Maher, she now calls Austin home.
She also hosts Mastering Love, the WeDeepen podcast: 180+ conversations on dating, desire, conflict, and staying in love.
Core framework
The Four Pillars of a Conscious Relationship
The old model said: find the right person, meet each other’s needs, live happily ever after. Maybe it works. Most likely, it doesn’t. A conscious relationship has a different purpose: growth. Partnered, dating, or solo, this is how we practice.
No Attachment to Outcome. Growth Comes First. (Prioritize growth)
No more shrinking to keep the peace. Growth keeps love alive. Ask “Who do I get to become here?” instead of “How do I make this work?”
Both Partners Agree to Own Their Own Sh*t.
Closeness will find your old wounds. When something stings, pause and ask: what part of this is mine? Blame keeps you stuck. Ownership sets you free.
All Feelings Are Welcome. No Internal Process Is Condemned.
There’s room to feel everything: jealousy, desire, grief, anger, insecurity, joy. And room to share it. You’d rather know each other than keep each other comfortable.
The Relationship Is a Place to Practice Love.
Love shows up in your hello, your patience on a hard day, and staying open when it’s easier to shut down. Keep asking: what would love do here?
Adapted from the work of therapist Shelly Bullard, MFT.
Read the Four Pillars →
Where we get to meet in person
New Year’s at the Gatsby
A completely sober New Year’s for 30 people at the Gatsby Mansion in Austin. Guided experiences with Christina Weber, Yossef Sagi and Melissa D., four shared meals, and a celebration you get to be fully present for.
“It was so lovely to be around beautiful women who were not competitive, wanting what’s best for each other and willing to share their hearts. It’s the first time I’ve been in a space like that.”
Angela W., Love Immersion participant
Dates
Dec 30 to Jan 1
Location
Austin, TX
Investment
$1,995 per person
Format
30 people max, sober
$200 off with code EARLYBIRD through Nov 18
Real People. Real Moments.
What happens inside WeDeepen: connection, laughter, breakthroughs.
Frequently asked questions
About the WeDeepen $99 membership
No. WeDeepen is for people who are dating, partnered, between relationships, or simply interested in improving the skills that lead to a better love life. Partners are welcome to join together.
Anyone who wants to thrive in love and get better at it. Men and women, straight and LGBTQ+, every age and stage, dating, partnered or solo. Many of our members are early adopters: optimists who believe the world is moving toward love and want to invest their time and energy in building it, starting with their own skills. Everyone practices together, shares real stories and gets honest about what’s actually happening.
Yes, for now. Couples are welcome to share one membership and come to sessions together. It’s set up under one email and one phone number, so choose whose it’ll be.
Sessions are 60 to 90 minutes, live, at 7:00 PM Eastern (6:00 PM Central, 5:00 PM Mountain, 4:00 PM Pacific). Love Masterminds and Integration Sessions take turns.
You can join anytime and come to the very next session. New Member Orientation runs monthly, and the events calendar shows the next one. It’s a welcome, not a prerequisite.
The events calendar always shows the next Love Mastermind and Integration Session.
No. Join today and come to the next session. Orientation runs once a month (the events calendar shows the next one) and is there to help you meet the community and get your bearings, whenever it fits your calendar.
You can join live when it works for you, use the community as questions come up, and catch Love Mastermind recordings from the time you join forward. There is no single way you have to participate.
No. Camera off is fine. Come, listen, and join in when you’re ready.
Different situations call for different lenses. You will learn from a range of approaches without being asked to commit to one way of thinking about love.
Both. The membership is online, so you can join from anywhere: sessions are virtual, and the community lives in Circle. In-person events, including Love Immersion, happen in Austin, Texas, and members fly in from all over to be with us. As the community grows, members in other cities are starting to meet up on their own, and we’ll keep growing with you.
Every Love Mastermind is recorded from the time you join forward, so you can catch it later from anywhere. Integration Sessions are practice, so they are live only.
A new dare arrives every Sunday, designed to bring more play, spontaneity, and social courage into your week. Some stretch you a little, others are simply fun, but each one gives you a reason to try something different and keep connection active outside the screen.
The membership is live and online: the place most people start and the foundation everything else builds on. Love Immersion is three days in person in Austin with the full faculty, sold separately at $2,995. Annual members get $800 toward one. New dates are coming soon. Join the waitlist to hear first.
The first 20 annual members get an $800 credit toward one Love Immersion retreat, the three-day in-person intensive in Austin ($2,995).
The credit is valid for one retreat during your membership year, can’t be combined with any other discount or offer, and isn’t redeemable for cash. To use it, reach out and we’ll send you your code.
Yes. You can cancel anytime, on your own, right inside the Circle community, including during your 14-day free trial. No calls, no forms. You keep full access through the end of the period you have already paid for.
Monthly: cancel and you won’t be charged again. Annual: $990 is paid once for the year (two months free, plus the $800 Love Immersion credit above). To avoid being charged for another year, cancel before your renewal date.
Your first 14 days are free. Come to the sessions, join the community, ask the experts. After that it’s $99/month, our founding member rate. Cancel anytime inside Circle before day 15 and you won’t pay anything.
Your first 14 days are free. After that, the WeDeepen Membership is $99 a month, or $990 a year (two months free). You can cancel anytime, including during your free trial.
The Membership ($99/month) is live online sessions, a private community, and Sunday Dares. Love Club ($9,997/year) is WeDeepen’s inner circle: it includes everything in the Membership, plus Friday Office Hours with Christina Weber, Annie Lalla’s 12-week program, Couples Council, and more.
No. WeDeepen is relationship education and coaching, not therapy.
WeDeepen Membership
Or $990/year, two months free.
First 14 days free, monthly or annual.
$800 credit toward one Love Immersion retreat, first 20 annual members*
Your first 14 days are free. After that it’s $99/month, our founding member rate. Cancel anytime.
Make love a lifelong practice.
Keep learning from expert faculty, testing what you learn, and developing how you date, communicate, connect, and love. Join today, come to the next live session.
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