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Keep a long love alive.

In the beginning, love runs on novelty. Years in, it runs on what you practice. Here, you practice desire, repair, and real conversation out loud, with experts who’ve spent their careers on it.

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What Members Say

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Hannah, speaking about WeDeepen
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If you’re in a space in your life where you’re feeling alone or disconnected, this is the space for you.

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Hannah

WeDeepen community

Cara, speaking about WeDeepen
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Eleven months in, I feel like I’m a new person. I’ve created this community that is truly safe and secure and full of love.

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Cara

Member, 11 months

Matt & Jen, speaking about WeDeepen
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When I shift that perspective and see my partner as the loving person, it makes all the difference in the world.

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Matt & Jen

Austin couple

Shailza, speaking about WeDeepen
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It’s probably my favorite friends group. Before joining this community I had fewer friends. Now I have this whole group of friends, and I thrive in it.

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Shailza

Member, Austin

WeDeepen Membership at a glance

Live sessions

Masterminds, relationship workshops, bonding & integration

Private community

Circle discussions + Ask the Experts

Real-world practice

Weekly Sunday Dares by email

Come together, or come on your own. A love that’s practiced keeps growing.

The longer you’re together, the less anyone teaches you.

There’s a whole industry for the wedding. Almost nothing for year twelve. Jobs, kids, moves and change all ask something of a relationship, and most of us were never shown how to keep desire, play and honest conversation alive through them.

Your intimacy journey is your life story

What we expect Innocence Heartbreak Armored You start practicing Skilled at love
This is your hero’s journey.

WeDeepen gives you a place to practice it deliberately, including learning to tell the difference between:

A coached conversation at a WeDeepen event

Comfort

versus

drifting apart

A rough patch

versus

a repeating pattern

Healthy compromise

versus

losing yourself

A real concern

versus

an old fear getting triggered

Keep choosing each other, on purpose.

Two people in conversation at a WeDeepen event
  • 01 Keep desire alive: miss each other, see each other with new eyes, build something together.
  • 02 Have hard conversations without losing the connection.
  • 03 Repair conflict before hurt turns into distance.
  • 04 Speak up sooner about needs, boundaries, and expectations.
  • 05 Bring play, flirtation, and curiosity back into the everyday.
  • 06 Grow as individuals without growing apart.
  • 07 Tell a rough patch from a repeating pattern.
  • 08 Build trust that can handle change, mistakes, and uncertainty.

In their words.

Couples and members of the WeDeepen community, and a look inside a session. Tap to play with sound.

Is your heart ready to open?
What it feels like to be taught love
Inside a Love Mastermind
Who teaches it

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What’s included in your membership

Live coaching at a WeDeepen event

Live sessions

Learn it live, then practice it together.

  • Love Masterminds with the faculty, built around your real questions.
  • Integration Sessions to practice what you learned.
  • Bonding exercises with other members.
Members practicing together at a WeDeepen event

Private member community

Keep the conversation going between sessions.

  • Ask the Experts Q&A with our faculty.
  • Private discussions on dating, sex, conflict and anything you’re working through.
  • Member discounts with partners like MindTravel and Tantra Speed Date.
Play and connection at a WeDeepen event

Practice + recordings

Take it into real life every week.

  • A new Sunday Dare by email: a playful challenge to try in real life.
  • The growing library of Love Mastermind recordings, open from your first day.
  • The member calendar, so you know what’s coming up.

Start anytime

Choose monthly or annual.

Join any day and come to the next live session. New member orientation runs monthly; the events calendar shows the next one.

You’ve spent years getting good at your work. This is 60 to 90 minutes a week for the thing that shapes everything else.

For comparison, a single private coaching session can cost $300 or more. Here, $99 covers a month of live weekly group sessions with our faculty, plus the community in between.

Monthly

$99 /month

First 14 days free. Founding member rate: $99/month. Cancel anytime.

Start my 14 free days
Two months free

Annual

$990 /year

14 days free, then billed once a year. Two months free. Plus $800 credit toward one Love Immersion retreat*

Start my 14 free days (annual)

*The $800 Love Immersion credit is for the first 20 annual members, is valid for one retreat during your membership year and can’t be combined with any other discount or offer. Details in the FAQ.

★★★★★ 5.0 26 Google reviews

“The quality of the coaches is unmatched. Christina brings in high-level professionals you end up wanting to keep working with. That level of expertise isn't easy to find.”

Krista & Thomas, together 15 years

This month inside the membership.

Love Masterminds with the faculty, and Integration Sessions where you practice what you learned. Plus a New Member Orientation to get you started. Here’s what’s next.

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Christina Weber, founder of WeDeepen, speaking at a WeDeepen event

Meet the founder

Christina Weber

In 2014, Christina was throwing Underground Unattached dating events in New York City, convinced that if she got enough dope people in one room, everyone would live happily ever after. Two years in, she saw that chemistry couldn’t overcome pressure, expectations and nervous energy. So she went looking for real answers, and found an entire industry teaching what school never did. WeDeepen, Love Immersion and Love Club bring that whole field together in one place. Featured on the cover of LA Magazine and on Real Time with Bill Maher, she now calls Austin home.

She also hosts Mastering Love, the WeDeepen podcast: 180+ conversations on dating, desire, conflict, and staying in love.

Two partners sculpting each other from stone, the Four Pillars of a Conscious Relationship

Core framework

The Four Pillars of a Conscious Relationship

The old model said: find the right person, meet each other’s needs, live happily ever after. Maybe it works. Most likely, it doesn’t. A conscious relationship has a different purpose: growth. Partnered, dating, or solo, this is how we practice.

1

No Attachment to Outcome. Growth Comes First. (Prioritize growth)

No more shrinking to keep the peace. Growth keeps love alive. Ask “Who do I get to become here?” instead of “How do I make this work?”

2

Both Partners Agree to Own Their Own Sh*t.

Closeness will find your old wounds. When something stings, pause and ask: what part of this is mine? Blame keeps you stuck. Ownership sets you free.

3

All Feelings Are Welcome. No Internal Process Is Condemned.

There’s room to feel everything: jealousy, desire, grief, anger, insecurity, joy. And room to share it. You’d rather know each other than keep each other comfortable.

4

The Relationship Is a Place to Practice Love.

Love shows up in your hello, your patience on a hard day, and staying open when it’s easier to shut down. Keep asking: what would love do here?

Adapted from the work of therapist Shelly Bullard, MFT.

Read the Four Pillars →

Real People. Real Moments.

What happens inside WeDeepen: connection, laughter, breakthroughs.

Welcome moment at Love Immersion
WeDeepen faculty coaching at a live event
Embodied practice session
Christina Weber teaching
Group bonding moment
Circle practice at retreat
Saturday daytime at retreat
Sunday closing moment

Frequently asked questions

About the WeDeepen $99 membership

No. WeDeepen is for people who are dating, partnered, between relationships, or simply interested in improving the skills that lead to a better love life. Partners are welcome to join together.

Anyone who wants to thrive in love and get better at it. Men and women, straight and LGBTQ+, every age and stage, dating, partnered or solo. Many of our members are early adopters: optimists who believe the world is moving toward love and want to invest their time and energy in building it, starting with their own skills. Everyone practices together, shares real stories and gets honest about what’s actually happening.

Yes, for now. Couples are welcome to share one membership and come to sessions together. It’s set up under one email and one phone number, so choose whose it’ll be.

Sessions are 60 to 90 minutes, live, at 7:00 PM Eastern (6:00 PM Central, 5:00 PM Mountain, 4:00 PM Pacific). Love Masterminds and Integration Sessions take turns.

You can join anytime and come to the very next session. New Member Orientation runs monthly, and the events calendar shows the next one. It’s a welcome, not a prerequisite.

The events calendar always shows the next Love Mastermind and Integration Session.

No. Join today and come to the next session. Orientation runs once a month (the events calendar shows the next one) and is there to help you meet the community and get your bearings, whenever it fits your calendar.

You can join live when it works for you, use the community as questions come up, and catch up in the Love Mastermind recording library. There is no single way you have to participate.

No. Camera off is fine. Come, listen, and join in when you’re ready.

Different situations call for different lenses. You will learn from a range of approaches without being asked to commit to one way of thinking about love.

Both. The membership is online, so you can join from anywhere: sessions are virtual, and the community lives in Circle. In-person events, including Love Immersion, happen in Austin, Texas, and members fly in from all over to be with us. As the community grows, members in other cities are starting to meet up on their own, and we’ll keep growing with you.

Love Masterminds are recorded, and the whole recording library opens on your first day, so you can catch up from anywhere. Integration Sessions are practice, so they are live only.

A new dare arrives every Sunday, designed to bring more play, spontaneity, and social courage into your week. Some stretch you a little, others are simply fun, but each one gives you a reason to try something different and keep connection active outside the screen.

The membership is live and online: the place most people start and the foundation everything else builds on. Love Immersion is three days in person in Austin with the full faculty, sold separately at $2,995. Annual members get $800 toward one. New dates are coming soon. Join the waitlist to hear first.

The first 20 annual members get an $800 credit toward one Love Immersion retreat, the three-day in-person intensive in Austin ($2,995).

The credit is valid for one retreat during your membership year, can’t be combined with any other discount or offer, and isn’t redeemable for cash. To use it, reach out and we’ll send you your code.

Yes. You can cancel anytime, on your own, right inside the Circle community, including during your 14-day free trial. No calls, no forms. You keep full access through the end of the period you have already paid for.

Monthly: cancel and you won’t be charged again. Annual: $990 is paid once for the year (two months free, plus the $800 Love Immersion credit above). To avoid being charged for another year, cancel before your renewal date.

Your first 14 days are free. Come to the sessions, join the community, ask the experts. After that it’s $99/month, our founding member rate. Cancel anytime inside Circle before day 15 and you won’t pay anything.

Your first 14 days are free. After that, the WeDeepen Membership is $99 a month, or $990 a year (two months free). You can cancel anytime, including during your free trial.

The Membership ($99/month) is live online sessions, a private community, and Sunday Dares. Love Club ($9,997/year) is WeDeepen’s inner circle: it includes everything in the Membership, plus Friday Office Hours with Christina Weber, Annie Lalla’s 12-week program, Couples Council, and more.

No. WeDeepen is relationship education and coaching, not therapy.

Members in a group embrace at a WeDeepen event

WeDeepen Membership

$99 /month

Or $990/year, two months free.

First 14 days free, monthly or annual.

$800 credit toward one Love Immersion retreat, first 20 annual members*

Live masterminds, bonding, and integration
Expert-led sessions on relationships and intimacy
Private Circle discussions + Ask the Experts
Sunday Dares delivered by email
The growing Love Mastermind recording library, from day one
Member discounts with partners like MindTravel and Tantra Speed Date

Your first 14 days are free. After that it’s $99/month, our founding member rate. Cancel anytime.

Come play with us.

Keep learning from expert faculty, testing what you learn, and developing how you date, communicate, connect, and love. Join today, come to the next live session.

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