Most relationship help comes in one of three shapes: books and courses you go through alone, private sessions with a coach or therapist, or a weekend retreat. A membership is a fourth shape. Instead of a one-time dose, you get a steady place to learn and practice, week after week, with experts and other people doing the same work. This page explains how that works and what to look for.
How a membership works
Most online relationship memberships include some mix of:
- Live sessions on video, led by coaches or experts, where you can ask questions or bring a real situation.
- Recordings, so you can catch up when you miss one.
- A private community for discussion between sessions.
- Practices or challenges to try in your actual life.
You pay monthly or yearly and can usually cancel anytime.
Who it's for
- People dating again who want somewhere to bring what happened and get honest feedback.
- Couples who want to keep a long love alive, together or on their own.
- People who've been to a workshop or retreat and want to keep the practice going.
- Anyone who believes love is a trainable skill and wants regular reps.
It's not the right tool for a crisis. For betrayal, abuse, addiction, or mental-health concerns, start with a licensed therapist. See couples coaching vs. couples therapy.
Why ongoing practice beats one-time learning
We get good at work, health, and sport through learning, practice, and feedback. Love is usually left to experience. The Harvard Study of Adult Development found that satisfaction in relationships was the strongest predictor of who would be happy and healthy at 80, which makes relationships worth training like anything else that matters.
Repetition matters because most relationship skills are small and live in the moment: noticing a partner's bid for attention, repairing after a sharp word, asking for what you want early. The Gottman Institute describes how those small moments shape a relationship over time. A weekly rhythm keeps them in front of you.
What to look for in a membership
- Who teaches. Look for named, credentialed experts, and ideally more than one point of view.
- Live, not just recorded. Live sessions let you bring your real situation.
- Room to practice. Watching isn't the same as doing. Look for exercises, integration time, or a community.
- Clear pricing and easy cancellation. You should know what you'll pay and be able to stop on your own.
- Honest scope. Good programs say clearly that they're education and coaching, not therapy.
What the WeDeepen Membership includes
The WeDeepen Membership, founded by Christina Weber, is built on the idea that love is a trainable skill:
- A live 90-minute session every Tuesday at 7:00 PM Eastern, alternating Love Masterminds with the faculty and Integration Sessions where members practice what they learned.
- Love Masterminds are recorded, so you can catch up later.
- A private member community on Circle, with Ask the Experts discussions.
- A Sunday Dare each week by text and email, a small real-life practice.
- A faculty across dating, intimacy, communication, attachment, and the nervous system. Meet them on the faculty page.
Everything runs on WeDeepen's Four Pillars: growth comes first, own your own experience, all feelings are welcome, and the relationship is a place to practice love.
Pricing: the first 14 days are free, then $99/month, or $990/year. Cancel anytime inside the Circle community, even during the trial. There are focused pages for dating again and for keeping a long love alive.
FAQ
Do I need a partner to join?
No. Members are dating, partnered, between relationships, or solo. Partners can join together, each with their own membership.
What if I can't make the live session?
Love Masterminds are recorded. Integration Sessions are live practice, so they're live only.
Is it therapy?
No. WeDeepen is relationship education and coaching.
How is it different from a dating app?
It's not a matchmaking service. It's a place to learn and practice the skills that make dating and relationships work.
Can I cancel?
Yes, anytime, on your own inside Circle. You keep access through the period you've paid for.
Try it
Your intimacy journey is your life story. Start your 14 free days, or read what members say first. Come play with us.